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Good parents don't pull the crap yours pulled on you. Could they help it? I don't know. But they were that bad.Mommelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10867214533128894487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27818433.post-18722032275643993632007-04-13T09:53:00.000-07:002007-04-13T09:53:00.000-07:00Thank you, Leroy...That was interesting...child as...Thank you, Leroy...<BR/>That was interesting...child as animal kept in a zoo attended by zookeepers. Which reminds me. You'd once mentioned Stockholm Syndrome...that I seemed to experience some of the same symptoms...and I did some research and need to blog about it. And yes, I did try talking about my feelings w/my adad but it is impossible because people like that have no absolutely no empathy.Ninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12077857199651890460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27818433.post-7030327594989988162007-04-13T03:58:00.000-07:002007-04-13T03:58:00.000-07:00Nina...your one comment stuck me as that of an abu...Nina...your one comment stuck me as that of an abused child that I have heard many times.<BR/><BR/>"Of course, they were not all bad. They did not beat me or starve me. They laughed, took me to Disneyland, drove me to high school functions, let me choose my favorite take-out."<BR/><BR/>They met your basic physical needs just like zoo keeps do with animals in their care. And I know you are not trying to excuse the emotional neglect/damage they did to you. Its that mixed message we have in our heads that say, "They did the best they could with what they had." and somehow that exornerates them from all the other crap you/we had to put up with. Of course no one is perfect and perhaps no one is totally evil either yet the conditions in which you were raised in were far from adequate. And the sad thing about it is that your aparents will NEVER take one ounce of responsibility for anything they did or didn't do that caused you all the pain you've gone through including hours of therapy. And you know why? Cuz it was your fault or someone elses. So sick and so twisted!!!<BR/><BR/>I know you have tried to tell your adad many times how you feel but he doesn't care because he is so wrapped up in his own wants/needs. Next best thing is to write your feelings down for others to validate just like you do here. Even we might not totally understand everything you went through but we listen well and I do think the bloggers here care a great deal about you.Doughnuthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00100398955132921465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27818433.post-76267859168272358612007-04-12T20:31:00.000-07:002007-04-12T20:31:00.000-07:00Suz...Oooo...maybe we should make an Alice Miller ...Suz...Oooo...maybe we should make an Alice Miller week! In honor of Alice. She is enthralling. Very good way to describe her. Must have something to do with the freshness of questioning authority and the prevailing thinking...an admiration for someone who is very brave. <BR/><BR/>Anonymous. Yikes! Meaning...me. Meant the adoption triad: adoptees, adoptive parents and first mothers/fathers. But of course there must be many triads. Child of a narcisisst. I AM sorry. It so painful. You are not alone although it must have felt like that for so long. Until consciousness. One of the most unsettling discoveries I've made on Blogpatrol is that most people link to my adoption blog using "narcissistic parent" as a keyword. My blog is a bit of both. Accidentally, of course. Dammit. I hate narcissism almost as much as I resent adoption gone bad. Which isn't always the case.Ninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12077857199651890460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27818433.post-38166943493400708992007-04-12T17:31:00.000-07:002007-04-12T17:31:00.000-07:00The triad? Oh yes, the triad. Good old triad. Stil...The triad? Oh yes, the triad. Good old triad. Still a member. Just to refresh my memory, what triad *exactly* are we talking about here? So many triads you know...<BR/><BR/>child of a narcissist? Yes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27818433.post-6783560772568691392007-04-12T15:00:00.000-07:002007-04-12T15:00:00.000-07:00So funny. Must be Alice Miller week. I saw one of ...So funny. Must be Alice Miller week. I saw one of her books on Julies blog. It just came today and I am enthralled. "Drama of the Gifted Child..." is what I am currently reading.suzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00192108446381808647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27818433.post-47566710409349505372007-04-12T13:43:00.000-07:002007-04-12T13:43:00.000-07:00Thank you, anonymous. May I ask, are you....a mem...Thank you, anonymous. May I ask, are you....a member of the triad? child of a narcissist? both? Just curious.Ninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12077857199651890460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27818433.post-55732819110295794382007-04-12T13:00:00.000-07:002007-04-12T13:00:00.000-07:00I'm adding your blog to my reading list right now....I'm adding your blog to my reading list right now...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com