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Frankly, the book terrifies me. I dont know why."<BR/><BR/>You are absolutely right. We need validation. CRAVE it because so many non-adopted are uncomfortable and feel the need to dismiss our experience/feelings, to correct us, put us in our places, remind us of what we SHOULD feel. Which is so bizarre. At least we adoptees can do this for each other. <BR/><BR/>As for your fear of the Primal Wound. I mean, just the title sounds scary...like a big, black hole you might fall into. But just so you know, it's actually validating and comforting. Maybe you're feeling vulnerable and suspect it will just add to it?Ninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12077857199651890460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27818433.post-44446875314751714552007-12-16T02:07:00.000-08:002007-12-16T02:07:00.000-08:00I think the thing that I am coming to love about o...I think the thing that I am coming to love about other adoptees no matter what their life experiences, is they are unafraid and compassionate - they do not distinguish that one adoptee's experience is "more valid" than anothers. We all feel the same things, and just because you can't readily 'see' it, doesnt mean the pain isnt there. Adoptees VALIDATE each other, and thats as basic a need for adoptees as it is for any human. <BR/><BR/>I have yet to read Primal Wound. Frankly, the book terrifies me. I dont know why. <BR/><BR/>I know what to be grateful for. Its like free will or respect - its not gratitude anymore when it has to be demanded.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27818433.post-90758294486086348352007-12-14T15:07:00.000-08:002007-12-14T15:07:00.000-08:00Mary! Oooo...how I've come to loathe that word! ...Mary! Oooo...how I've come to loathe that word! Funny. Grateful rhymes with hateful. Just think. We could be free to express ambivalence and sadness and...wait for it...anger!...without some goofball saying, "Aren't you glad you weren't aborted?" As if THAT had anything to do with being adopted!Ninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12077857199651890460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27818433.post-29078328979309089622007-12-14T14:11:00.000-08:002007-12-14T14:11:00.000-08:00I'm with you Nina! The term "grateful" would be ba...I'm with you Nina! The term "grateful" would be banned from National Adoptee month too.Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11655435232740558724noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27818433.post-79417406414199543102007-12-13T19:27:00.000-08:002007-12-13T19:27:00.000-08:00Well, my dearest Possum from Down Under...Not only...Well, my dearest Possum from Down Under...Not only did we live it, we survived! While some adoptees weren't dealt such a raw deal as some of us got, there's still the Mother Issue of 'Em All: abandonment. It absolutely drove me bonkers to hear some AP's get all indiginant and say there was no such thing as the Primal Wound. HAH!Ninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12077857199651890460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27818433.post-34678003167467004562007-12-13T18:39:00.000-08:002007-12-13T18:39:00.000-08:00Oh Nina - I can but only dream.You have my vote fo...Oh Nina - I can but only dream.<BR/>You have my vote for National Adopteeeeee Month.<BR/>How refreshing it would be to have the adoptee overwhelmingly heard - instead of all the AP's.<BR/>We lived it.<BR/>*sigh*<BR/>Poss. xxxxxPossumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01868324445518687576noreply@blogger.com